Tips for finding a life partner for single ladies

 

Many years ago I met a lady at a church training she was a very calm lady she talked with people with so much respect especially men luckily she married our choir leader who was a great worshipper one year after they married the husband died from hepatitis while she was pregnant. Her pain was felt by everyone at work especially at church. Luckily, fews years later she remarried. In that space of years many had prayed for good husbands that never came while another woman had married twice in that space .it brings me back from the last post on my page why do beautiful ladies remain unmarried; I have few reasons and best ways to overcome this challenge. Ladies there is no perfect man the only one that exist is in your head. Have a checklist of eligible suitors it should be in this category; 

An honest man

An ambitious man,

A hardworking man,

A decent and gentle man

A wise man ,

Humble but confident man ,

 Godly in character and a respectful man. 

I did not mention a handsome and rich man. The reason is looks(beauty) is transient and riches are good but does not guarantee happiness in marriage .ladies go for content not packaging. For a visionary man who is ambitious will most times end up rich " be part of the journey of an ambitious and honest man that loves you not the one you love" . One of the great challenges of many matured singles is been overly selective of their choices of men while they age. Like I said the only perfect man is in your head use the above checklist when selecting men as it best serves your personality type. Ladies be friendly but set healthy boundaries don't appear too cheap for men. Go after the man you desire in a subtle way without been manipulative i.e be friendly create a atmosphere of warmth, peace and respect around yourself that any man would desire to be in for the rest of his life . I can tell you men never forget how you make them feel or you made others feel around you .many marriages are made through recommendation from men . Be a lady that is remembered for being supportive, respectful and submissive. Finally let your beauty come from a great smile always,decentness and your awesome politeness and humility not artificial make-up or outfits alone. Ultimately remember that marriage is work don't let it be your life consuming goal thereby making you looking desperate and falling for the wrong men. Enjoy this phase in your life ,BE the spouse you desire to marry ,develop yourself while waiting for the right man .