Seven things a Single Lady need to know on how to get a good husband

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Seven things a Single Lady need to know on how to get a good husband

In the world today that they are more women than men going by the wars that has been fought ,all fought by men. Such conflict  has created a need for good and caring husbands. To begin with, every  single ladies should know that the number one need of a woman should not be a man but God. Because a woman can be married to good man but still be lonely but the difference is to have a balance but the right person and have wholeness as an individual. Being single is not a sin but being single for long is not good.It should create opportunity to learn about oneself  in an intensely unique way that  may not have been when married. On the list on what  single lady needs;

 1.Self control –most single lady miss their husband because of  their attitude, lifestyle and their mouth. Some talk their way out of a good relationship because their future husband fear for trouble .because a woman who cannot control her mouth in courtship will be dangerous in marriage.

2.Mentor figure- Every single  lady needs a mentor that can be trusted and  like a pastor or pastor’s wife or God fearing woman  .single  ladies never make a divorcee your mentor.

3.Preparation – Most time single ladies see the period of waiting for a husband as burdensome and distressing but it should be that  a time to read as many books on marriage to making them equipped for a next phase of life like for example Stormie Omartian  book on the “Power of a praying Wife”, Jimmy Evan’s book “Lifelong love Affair” etc. If you are not prepared for marriage you might regret it even if you have a good husband .success is when preparation meets opportunity.

4.Humility –In this modern era of female emancipation and women right movement .Most ladies are in hurry to take over the world not that am against equal right of female gender. But a woman should know her place most especially the single lady. Humility is one of the rare and often scarce character basically in both gender.But a lady who wish to enjoy marriage for long needs  it because in marriage  it also called Submission .

5.Confidence-One can be confident and still be humble.Most ladies after waiting for long they tend to lose confidence in themselves feeling  unappreciated, ugly and dull in the way they dress, walk and carry themselves . And that Aura  further  repels men from them.All men gravitate toward a positive ,confident  and beautiful woman. Beauty and confidence to me is when a woman knows who she is ,what she is worth  and carries herself with grace but in humility that is when most men will take notice .

6.Purity –In these day and age when virginity seem hard . but going by the way people have multiple sex partners they forget that any person they have sex with  they make a SOUL TIE with that person that might injure future relation even if they want to settle down. The truth is every man wants to marry a decent woman who will be faithful to him even when he is absent .It is better to wait  and be  pure before the right person comes than to have multiple sex partner  and rush into marriage and be tormented with ties made with different soul mate after marriage.

7.Prayer-This should be number  One on the list but for sake of emphasis it  is placed as such.Prayer is the communication to our creator about anything but in these case knowing the will of God for ones life partner, it could be the most important prayer  a single lady make concerning not just a husband but a good one that is Godly. One way you might know the will of God concerning the right man  is when you  feel a high level of peace ,joy around that person. And there is inner conviction that  person is your husband after prayer. Never tell a future spouse that  you feel God wants you to be is wife as lady. Let God tell the man, then the lady will confirm it to him .If two shall agree on anything God will do it.